The holidays are just around the corner and you’ve got your eye on that special someone. What better way to make a lasting impact than wooing her this holiday season? Here are 10 ways to really woo the woman of your dreams.
Flowers are usually fail-proof, that is as long as she doesn’t have a severe allergy. You may even rake up some bonus points if you bring her a nice Christmas themed bouquet.
2. Ask her out for a nice dinner
Casually invite her out for a dinner date and go all out. Don’t go for the cheap burger joint, unless she likes that. Even better? Cook a nice dinner instead.
A lot of women believe that chivalry is dead, and a lot of factors are involved with this idea. Act chivalrous towards her. Hold the door open. Offer her your jacket if she looks cold. It’s not that hard, and she’ll appreciate the sentiment.
4. Surprise her with a Christmas Gift
Do some background research and give her something she really wants. Make it a memorable gift and let her know how you feel about her.
5. Write her a song/poem
Make the effort and spend an honest amount of time into writing a song or poem about how you feel about her. Make it Christmas themed. It doesn’t even have to be that good. It’ll make her feel special. (If you’re going to perform this in a public space, make sure it won’t embarrass her)
6. Have good conversations with her
A lot of women love nothing more than a man who can hold his own during an intense conversation. Be thoughtful and intelligent, but don’t fake it either.
7. Be Dependable and a Listener
Be there for her when she needs you and listen to her problems. Don’t interject with your advice. Most of the time, she doesn’t need it. She just wants someone to listen. With the craziness of the holiday season, she’s going to need someone to talk to. Be the person that’s there for her. She’ll remember it.
8. Figure out what makes her laugh
9. Show an interest in her family
The holiday season is focused on the family. If you really want to make an impression, show an interest in her family. If you get to meet them, pay attention and interact with the kids. It’s charming.
10. Be Yourself
Let’s be honest. If you really want to woo the woman of your dreams, you need to be you. She isn’t going to be impressed by the fake you that will eventually surface after she’s known you for awhile. She’ll appreciate the real you much more than you probably realize.
And do you really want to impress her? Get to know her and do something that she’ll appreciate.